Whenever I talk about my health issues, I always get asked about my sex life. And if you know me I am very willing to share all things personal including sex. It's funny that this is my topic for this entry because my mom literally just asked if I am okay with her reading my blog, of course because I’m grown, I honestly don’t mind it at all plus I'm sure I got some of my little frisky traits from somewhere lol.
But anyways, I usually get asked whether or not I am able to have sex often. The answer to that is no and I'm sad about it. There are times where I have no issues and we get right to it as much as we can but there are also times where we go months in between. Obviously, there are things that can be done that don’t involve intercourse but you guys, my husband is FINE, and I want it all. That being said, I kind of struggle with being insecure because of all of the things my body goes through and my husband is so patient and understanding. That man makes do with whatever I am able to give, and I love him for that. It's been rough because we are both very sexual people, and we definitely still flirt and get each other going if you know what I mean. In the past I did question whether or not he would look elsewhere to be satisfied but as time went on, I held on to the fact that I know I have a good man! And when I can give it girrrrrl I give it, so why would he go anywhere else? We are very open and honest with each other when it comes to our needs and feelings, so we try our best to understand where the other is coming from. There are times when he gets frustrated, and I have except that and figure out a way to help my babe because like I said we are naturally sexual people and long dead periods aren’t easy. We've gotten pretty creative in the past and I am definitely willing to go into that more on another post (y’all just let me know if you need that). There are also those moments when I am unable completely to give anything and those are the times that I feel very down about myself and in the past, I would hurt myself more by ignoring the fact that I was unable to have sex just because I thought I would be letting my husband down. I would literally be in so much pain the next few days and that would make him feel bad so we both would lose in that situation. I’ve grown and I've learned to listen to my body and trust that my hubby wants me to feel okay more than he wants sex. It's hard at times but we’re getting through it and when those days or nights come when my body says go get ‘em girl just know that it's well worth the wait!
Hey mom, kept it cute and PG... this time!
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