Have you guys been seeing those cute best friend 90’s photo shoot ideas all over social media? I am obsessed! I love everything about how corny it is and I want to do it so bad. My bestie sent me some that she has come across and I think it’s a sign because we didn’t even talk about it and we were both like “let’s do it”. I absolutely love making memories with my friends, but it hasn’t been so easy lately because of how crazy my schedule with the kids can be and obviously we all have our own lives and things going on, so we have to get in where we fit in. I am very blessed to have friends that understand everything that comes with being me, my moods, my anxiety, my emotions and my constant cancellations and rescheduling. They know that I hate to let people down, and that saying no to something is extremely hard for me so when I do it's for a legit reason. They also know that when they need me, no matter what I’m going through, I will show the fuck up and I know that about them. I have a real solid group of friends that all came into my life at different times and I truly know that they are in my life now for a reason, they are my family and my support. I’m such a girls girl so having strong beautiful women in my life, with no drama and no jealously is so important to me, it makes my heart happy. I honestly feel for people who don’t get to experience true friendship, we hold each other accountable, hype each other up, pray for each other, support everything we each got going, show up, keep it super real and just love each other. I don’t feel forced to be anything other than myself which is a relief because pretending is tiring. I never had the chance to be close to my actual sisters, we have different moms so growing up together wasn’t really a thing, I love my baby sisters and I would do anything for them, but I think not having them around is what made me look for sisterhood in my girlfriends. My bestie has been my friend since 2nd grade, we been through it all together, had our ups and downs, arguments, lived together, took our first road trip together, had our kids around the same time and now our daughters are best friends, we literally have grown up together and have so many memories that we sometimes sit back and laugh about, we’re the God mom to each other's kids and making sure we are creating fun memories for our babies to share together. We're both emotional ass Geminis who love helping others and would give our last to someone in need with no questions asked, my strengths are her weaknesses and vice versa, I honestly don’t think anyone gets us like we get each other, and even though she gets on my nerves I know that’s one sister I will never ever lose. Now my Fave, who is another best friend of mine came along later in life during college days, we both followed our men to Utah where they played football and we clicked right away. That girl will ride for her friends, she’s one of the most selfless people, always down to do whatever, shows up in every way, super independent and just one of those boss women who you look at in awe because she is so damn beautiful on the outside and her inside matches. I’m very protective of them both and I always feel bad for whoever comes into their lives because I’m asking all the questions, I’m putting you to the test, I’m trying to find out if your intentions are genuine with my friends, I don’t care if it’s a friendship or a dating situation, I will always be that way when it comes to them. For the longest I had my 2 besties, and I was perfectly fine, God definitely had another plan because I have a couple more friends that I bonded with because of the type of moms that we are. It's funny because we knew of each other prior to having kids and honestly one of them I didn’t really like too much because I was petty and insecure, and my man was always liking her pics on socials so I felt some type of way but once I matured a little and we got to talking I really vibed with her. It was one of those random friendships that started because our son’s played on the same sports teams and we got super close super fast and now even though she moved kind of far, I know we both are just a call away. Plus we relate on being bomb ass moms, wives and now unfortunately we have grieving over a loved one in common and her strength has been an inspiration. Lastly, my girl who I knew because we were from the same city, never really talked like that but followed each other on Instagram and pretty much just liked pictures, watched our kids grow from afar and just randomly became obsessed with each other. She’s another strong ass woman who is raising her kids on her own, they don’t want or need for anything because super mom is going to make it happen. We are so much alike, we are those shit talking mamas, who don’t play about our babies, we aren't afraid to say what's on our mind but deep down we are big softies who cry for literally everything. I love how much she loves her kids, I love that her heart is just so big and she is probably one of the realest people I've come across. I respect the hell out of her! There's no replacing my friends. You don’t come across many like them so I will forever hold them close. No matter where our life journey takes us all, I know that I have a core group of girls who I can always count on and I truly hope they feel the same about me. Y’all know who you are and I love you beautiful ladies so so much!
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